Jake was shocked that Ben would dangle the end of their relationship out like that, just telling Jake to end it. Did it mean so little to him he'd be fine packing up and leaving? He'd also said he didn't want to break up. He was sending mixed signals at best, and it left Jake unsure what to do or say next. He got up.
"I need a minute to think," he said, trying to make it seem as unemotional as possible so Ben wouldn't think he was storming off again. He walked into the seldom used kitchen and placed his hands on his head, trying to figure out what Ben had meant, and how to receive it. He seemed to think that asking where his feelings were was some great affront. To Jake, what was the point of talking about the superficial issues if they didn't feel or want the same things? Jake desired closeness, and didn't understand the perception Ben had formed. He could've just said I don't know yet, but instead mentioned superficial facets of their dyad and then said it was up to Jake to figure out if it was love. What the fuck did that even mean? He either loved Jake or not, or was unsure, but this you figure it out dynamic felt like ducking responsibility and created more ambiguity. Jake felt the ambiguity between them was the problem!
Then their was the accusation he'd demanded his answer. Jake had asked. He hadn't said, Tell me or I'll leave you, but that seems to be how Ben heard it. Was Jake being too direct? Did Ben expect to never share, to constantly be guessing where the other was at? Jake sighed, and moved back into the room.
"Okay," he began, tense but under control for the moment. "I don't want us to end. I never have. I love you. I know that now. I'm worried we want different things, and that I let you in too much. I-. I don't normally let people see who I am. Now that I have... it just feels like you don't like who I am. The White Rabbit is a part of who I am, just as much as the things in this place."
He used his hands to show the apartment. "I would like you to respond to that in whatever way you see fit. I demand nothing, but... I ask that you tell me where you're at with all this."