She laughed at his comment, finding it thoroughly endearing that he would demean himself because he was obviously flustered by the notion - and willing to show it by giving her an answer, rather than leaving her hanging. She loved that about him; that he considered her and made an effort not to close himself off any longer. It wasn\'t exactly something he\'d been thinking about as long as she had either, she supposed, so he had every right to not be as eloquent as would be impressive.
She mulled over everything for a few moments, her left hand trailing absently up and down his back and side - except for when it stopped so her thumb could obsessively caress the ring.
"What I\'ll do," she drawled thoughtfully, once she\'d concocted a plan (the problem was, her brain had skipped from subject to subject so fast, it was taking her a while to trace her way back to where she\'d begun so she could start explaining there), "is just tell Freddy and the king that we\'re engaged, at first. They\'re the ones I trust to give me the best advice and I\'ll let their opinion influence what work I do or don\'t do afterwards."
The next topic was quickly stated. "I think we should get married in the spring, after winter\'s over with. The way will be clear for your parents to travel up - Jax, too, I assume you\'ll invite him? - and Calista will have had her baby so she and Tiberius might be able to travel as well. Plus, Oberon is beautiful in the spring," she murmured huskily, fondness for her home evident in her tone. "By then, I\'ll definitely know what I\'m going to do workwise Oh, and I\'d like us to be married by the Acolyte in Adora\'s Sanctuary, even if it\'s not a particularly esteemed thing to do."
She paused momentarily then, but in such a way that it was obvious she was tasting the next words she was going to say and it wouldn\'t be appropriate for him to interrupt. Her breath was held, for a start, causing the silence around them to become expectant.
"I\'d like us to stop worrying about being careful and try for a baby straight away," she admitted, releasing her pent-up breath in a gentle whoosh. "It may not happen quickly - or even at all - considering I\'m already thirty and... we should know if that\'s going to be the case. The sooner the better, really. I\'m surprised your mother didn\'t comment about my being so much older than you - maybe my hair being down fooled her. I\'ve been told I look younger with my hair down," Lam explained, attempting an offhanded laugh that didn\'t really come off, because she was feeling suddenly nervous that Kysis would argue with her and tell her even though he didn\'t know when they should have children, he definitely knew it wasn\'t now.
That would not be good at all, considering the flighty feeling of nervousness that alighted in her belly every time she thought about not being able to get her next dearest wish (which was a baby, now that she had the man she wanted). If she couldn\'t produce a Liari heir, would Kysis divorce her? He\'d ended up with the title because Ryos hadn\'t been able to have a son, so it was likely if that happened to them that the estate would simply shift back to Calista\'s children but... she didn\'t want to let her husband down like that. She didn\'t want to be let down like that, herself. She desperately wanted a child and a son who could continue in their footsteps and carry on their family legacies.
Worse, if Kysis didn\'t divorce her because she was barren, but stayed married to her for love, would he resent her? Would their love eventually turn bitter and fade so that they never spent time together and could barely stand each others\' company (as seemed to be the case with his parents)? Would he seek to have a child out of wedlock with someone else?
Everything was too horrible to contemplate just then, and she pushed all these thoughts determinedly out of her head. No, it was best to know now whether or not they could have children together; those other bridges would be crossed at some other point in the future.
"Do... you think you\'d be against that? I mean, you don\'t know when you want to have one because it will change our lives but... a lot of the changes we\'re contemplating will happen as soon as we\'re married. We\'ll start living together - well, we\'ll supposedly start living together," she amended wryly, knowing that the dissolution of her home (as the smallest, it made sense for her and Matthew to leave it and move into Kysis\' house) wouldn\'t happen officially until they were wed but that she had no intention of sleeping without him up until that time if she could possibly help it, "and I\'ll have either quit or started some other form of work that has already taken us having a child into account so... it shouldn\'t be too terribly traumatic as far as changes go."
Her words were slow and gentle in their persuasion, but obvious in their intent. She would accept it if he had strong reservations and balked completely at the idea of so quickly turning their duo into a trio but she was compelled to make her standpoint clear. "Plus, it\'s considered a wonderful omen for a productive marriage if Adora has blessed a bride with new life before the ceremony," she pointed out hastily, unable to help herself. She pressed her lips together then, though, for she didn\'t want to annoy him by repeating the same message over and over. He deserved to have some input.