Kerr opened his mouth to insist that they work it out now but he stopped before he said anything, Ben's initial words registering belatedly. I need to get out of my head. That was his fault, because he'd made this conversation into something it shouldn't have been and thrown them both off kilter. He could feel Ben's conflict. He was happy, yes, but there was more and Kerr felt like it was negative, which worried him. Was Ben already having second thoughts?
Maybe he should've not tugged on that thread in the first place, just kept his big mouth shut instead of blurting out every little thought that came into his head like it was no big deal. This was a big deal and it was just getting bigger the more Ben thought about it, which wasn't great. If he made it into too big a deal, he might talk himself out of that yes. That was a devastating thought. He needed to listen to Ben and just slow down.
"Okay," he exhaled, willing himself into calmness and being present in this moment, appreciating it for what it was. "Okay," he said again, reflexively, because it felt like the first one was for Ben but this one was for him. The open relationship thing was no longer the takeaway from this conversation. He'd blindsided them both with something far more important, meaning the rest of it was just fine working itself out when it happened. Frankly, he wasn't interested in anyone but Ben forever, in this moment. He couldn't imagine the necessity of talking about rules with other people coming up ever again.
Kerr simply held Ben for a moment, his lips pressed to his love's head. "Shall we shower?" he asked after a time, wondering whether the quiet was what Ben needed to settle himself or whether action would serve that purpose better. He would accommodate, either way, the guilt of sort-of-ruining, sort-of-launching their evening keeping him humble (at last).